Tarot Reading for October 2015
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Blog #49: Tips for Getting Through Changes
Legacy of the Divine Tarot
5 OF COINS: Because there will be much going on during
October related to changes, it is important for you to seek out and ask for
help if you need it. Sometimes we are
reluctant to do so, because we think we may look weak to others. But we are all
connected, so when someone helps us or when we help someone else, we are
helping ourselves, too. During the
month, feelings of insecurity, doubt, worry, and anxiety may overpower you if
you let them, so do your best to stay in a positive frame of mind. Also
remember to look at all the good things happening in your life, and focus on
these rather than the stressful, worrisome events that may be going on around
you. Show gratitude for all that you
have.
THE MOON:
Things will be a bit unclear and uncertain during the month, so don’t expect to
get specific answers to all of your questions.
You may feel bewildered, confused, disoriented, or easily
distracted. It is ok to feel this way,
and others are in the same boat. Instead
of letting these feelings bog you down, trust your intuition to guide you as
you go about your day. Listen to what your inner voice is telling you, and go
with hunches or instincts rather than relying only on your analytical and
reasoning mind.
QUEEN OF SWORDS: You are a force to be reckoned with this
month, as you seek out the truth and attempt to find out what is really going
on in world events, on a personal level, or as related to the state of the
nation. Whatever your target, you will be able to cut through all the
unnecessary and deceitful “facts” that are clouding the truth. Others may find it hard to trick or fool you,
and they will see that you have an uncanny ability to quickly size up a
situation. The truth is out there, and it is time to step up to the plate and
find it.
THE FOOL: The changes that occurred last month are
still having an effect, and one result is that you feel as if you are starting
on a new path in your life. A brand-new
cycle is starting, and you are excited about it but also a bit
apprehensive. However, if you just take
it a day at a time and go with the currents of change rather than fighting them,
you will see how things start falling into place. Be aware of any risks that
you may encounter, and be prepared to deal with them by keeping your eyes open
and your senses sharp. This can be a magical, exciting time if you let it. You may surprise yourself at how more
spontaneous you are, doing unexpected things that you would never have thought
of doing even just a few months ago. Let
feelings of being free and uninhibited flow from you so you can get as much out
of this month as possible.
TRENDS FOR THE
MONTH: During October we will see a continuation of the effects of the
changes that took place in September.
You may be still reeling from all that occurred, so seek the support and
encouragement of friends, relatives, or a professional to see you through a
rough time. And, you may have others come to you for solace, so give generously
of your time, showing gratitude for these opportunities as well as all the good
things going right in your life. It
will be important to let go of the need to have answers for all of your
questions; instead, just allow to come to you whatever shows up. You will be a truth-seeker, wanting to find
out more about what is really going on in the world and what you can do to
improve the things that are within your sphere of control. Explore and research whatever information
does not ring true, and be flexible if you find some of your long-held beliefs
changing.
Blog #49: Tips for Getting
Through Changes
Retrieved from www.smallstepsbigchanges.com
Have you ever heard the expression “The only constant is
change?” Change is part of a universal
law, so things can never stand still.
And by just noticing what is happening in the world today, it is obvious
that change is with us and will continue to be a part of our lives.
On the global level, there is not a whole lot that we can do
personally to help those in another country who are going through traumatic
change. We can pray for them and send them healing energy, but most of us are
not able to physically travel to where the unrest is happening and do something
tangible to help, nor would we want to in dangerous circumstances.
On the personal level, we each are experiencing change in
our own ways. It could be something minor, such as having to deal with a break
in our routine, or travel to a different part of the country or the world that
opens our eyes to many experiences and opportunities that we have not had
before. Change can also be traumatic,
such as losing a loved one or the ending of an important relationship.
Whatever happens to us, change is inevitable, and at times
can be extremely challenging.
The two major types of changes are: (1) those that occur unexpectedly, as if coming out
of the blue, and (2) those that we have decided to make and have planned
for—the ones where we may be scared to death to take a risk but are “going for
it”.
So what can we do to accept the changes in our lives and
lessen their disruptive impact on us?
Given below are several tips that you may find useful.
Ø
Take it
one day at a time. Change is a
process, like other life experiences, so once you realize that, you can accept
things as they come without getting so bent out of shape, you can relax a
little. Don’t focus so much on the results, worrying that you may not reach
your goal. Remember that you can change your mind, and you can change your goal
if things are not to your liking. Give yourself credit for moving forward and
doing something different.
Ø
Be
optimistic and focus on the future. Realize that all events have a
beginning, a middle, and an end. You
will not be stuck in any one phase of moving ahead or healing unless you purposely
decide to do so. Have trust that things
will get better—that there is an end in sight, that there are unlimited
possibilities, and that all things go in cycles. We will all have ups and downs
in our lives, so accept this as being just a part of life. If you are feeling
like you are in a downward spiral, know that eventually you will start coming
out of it and things will improve.
Ø
Be kind
to yourself. Don’t tell yourself that you need to “get over” your emotions
or feelings immediately. Acknowledge how
you are feeling, and if you find yourself in a negative space (feeling sad,
bummed out, exhausted, stressed, frustrated), give yourself a certain amount of
time to feel this way. And then take steps to move forward once again. Be patient with yourself as you adjust to the changing
circumstances, and don’t beat yourself up if you are not feeling completely
happy when you told yourself you would.
Ø
Find
support. If you are going through a
loss, people around you may not know how to react. They may want to help, but
don’t know how to go about it. You can
reach out to friends and family rather than expecting them to figure out what
you need or want. There is no shame in asking for help when it is needed.
Ø
Do
familiar things. Change can cause a disruption in our routines or other
things that we are used to. As soon as
you are ready, start getting back into doing what makes you feel comfortable,
such as exercising, meditating, retreating outdoors for a breath of fresh air,
or talking with good friends. Whatever makes you feel at home and more secure
can be very beneficial.
Ø
Don’t
worry about why this change has happened.
We don’t need to always know why something has happened, and saying that
“everything happens for a reason” may not always be helpful, especially if it
doesn’t allow you to move forward.
If the change is what you have
chosen (rather than happening unexpectedly), here are some additional tips that
may help you adjust to your new situation.
Ø
You will
never have all the information you think you need. You need to do research and gather as much
information as possible, but don’t let this need to overanalyze the situation
paralyze you to the point where you stay stuck where you are. Nothing is
certain in life, and you have free will—if you find out down the road that you
made a mistake, you can correct it.
Ø
Trust
yourself. If there is something you
really want to do (such as finding another job or moving to a different location),
it is easy to come up with excuses that will prevent you from taking a risk and
moving forward. Listen to your intuition and gut instinct—if you get the
feeling that this is the right move for you, then go ahead and take a
chance. You will find a way to make it
work.
Ø
Consider
the worst case scenario. Ask
yourself what is the worst thing that could happen as a result of your
decision. We create most of our fears in
our own head, so recognize this and realize that the worst thing is not really
all that bad.
Ø
There are
unlimited opportunities. If you have
a big decision to make and don’t know what to do, don’t think that you have
only one option. Just because you take one course of action does not mean that
there are no more opportunities available to you. The good news is that often new
pursuits lead to more opportunities—ones that would not have been there had you
not taken that risk in the first place.
So, whether change has entered
your life because of something unexpected happening that was out of your
control, or you purposely decided to take a risk and explore a new path for yourself,
there are a number of things you can do to transition to this new phase of your
life. Your success in this pursuit
depends on your overall approach and desire to let the change work for you.
Sources
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/lisabeth-saunders-medlock-phd/seven-things-you-need-to-_b_4129918.html
http://www.lifehack.org/articles/lifestyle/7-ways-to-get-over-fear-and-make-big-life-changes.html
